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AITA for kicking my best friend out and telling him to grow up after he called my baby belly gross and weird? by bestfrienddroppedme in AmItheAsshole

[–]bestfrienddroppedme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am suffering with extreme emotions a lot this pregnancy unfortunately (another wonderful pcos side effect) so I am willing to agree this is all on me. I’ll call him as soon as I know he’s free and apologize for my crabby ass.

AITA for kicking my best friend out and telling him to grow up after he called my baby belly gross and weird? by bestfrienddroppedme in AmItheAsshole

[–]bestfrienddroppedme[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Luckily he’s a generous friend and we’ve fought over worse before so hopefully he’ll accept my apology.

AITA for kicking my best friend out and telling him to grow up after he called my baby belly gross and weird? by bestfrienddroppedme in AmItheAsshole

[–]bestfrienddroppedme[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’ll see if he is happy to meet up but my post literally describes that he avoids me so we’ll see how that goes haha!

AITA for kicking my best friend out and telling him to grow up after he called my baby belly gross and weird? by bestfrienddroppedme in AmItheAsshole

[–]bestfrienddroppedme[S] 7561 points7562 points  (0 children)

You’re completely right. Overall he’s usually very considerate and sensitive especially towards other pregnant / parent friends in our circle so I think I was just surprised at the difference with me. Of course, I’m closer so maybe that’s the difference. I’ll apologize to him and see if we can’t try and make up!

AITA for kicking my best friend out and telling him to grow up after he called my baby belly gross and weird? by bestfrienddroppedme in AmItheAsshole

[–]bestfrienddroppedme[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is really helpful to read and remind myself, you’re completely right of course.

AITA for kicking my best friend out and telling him to grow up after he called my baby belly gross and weird? by bestfrienddroppedme in AmItheAsshole

[–]bestfrienddroppedme[S] 236 points237 points  (0 children)

We’ve seen a lot of pregnant friends in our circle and he’s never been weird with them or avoided them. I knew that when he made his comment so it made me even more upset.

AITA for kicking my best friend out and telling him to grow up after he called my baby belly gross and weird? by bestfrienddroppedme in AmItheAsshole

[–]bestfrienddroppedme[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Yeah I could have really handled the whole thing better. I think I’m just emotional AND upset over the fact that he literally avoided me because of something I have no control over. And you know, it’s a new stage of my life and I want my family and friends there, maybe I overreacted because I’m scared about the future too!